Saturday - Hot, muggy and cloudy. Some rain.
I woke up this morning when my alarm went off. I had to get up fairly soon afterwards. I got dressed and did a couple of shirt changes. I met my friend a few minutes after 10 and we drove over to Gusto and had breakfast together.
After we had a nice breakfast, she drove me back to my doctor’s office and I met up with F. We went in and did the doctor stuff again. It was as boring and as horrible as usual.
We had lunch at Nagomi today. F wanted to have noodles so I suggested it. It wasn’t good. F said it was because soba wasn’t in season, but really I think it was just that I didn’t want soba!
After lunch we went to an old style Japanese coffee shop and had kakigori. It was really nice. We came back to the house afterwards and relaxed for a bit. F had told me the day before that K’s Case Worker was coming over at 5 pm. Well, she was late. F and I were waiting in the living room for her. When she arrived, F commanded me to go and get drinks. Huh? He hadn’t even mentioned that to me before she arrived, and there was a lot of time to do so. I’m not your bloomin’ servant dude.
I brought the glasses and a bottle of tea I had in the fridge and put them on the table. Then, I realized that F had moved into my chair. Why? What? I had enough and I just left. I went upstairs.
A bit later F came upstairs and tore a strip out of me. I was rude, it WAS my job to serve drinks, etc. etc. etc. I didn’t care. I’m really upset with F.
I basically was ignored for the rest of the night. Of course I wasn’t taken out for dinner, I made my own from some things I had on hand for situations like this.
It’s been a quiet evening here. I did watch a little TV at 11 but nothing much else. I imagine that tomorrow will be much of the same. I most likely will be here tomorrow night, but in case I’m not, don’t worry, I’ll show up in a few days.
Until tomorrow….
2 comments:
That sucks about the way F treated you. A little bit of communication about what he wanted you to do beforehand would have been helpful.
No kidding! Not sure why my DH thinks that I would automatically know that I should bring refreshments, or why it should be me that brings them at all. I think he forgets that I'm not Japanese and I don't know all the "rules" of Japanese society. But most of all, that I don't care about the "rules"!
Anyway, thank you for your comment!
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