March 25, 2026

Wednesday - Sunny and warm

I woke up this morning around 8:30 when my alarm went off. F was still in bed at the time. He got up after I did. Only thing is that I went back to bed for a bit, he got up to cook for his mother.

I got up about an hour later, dressed and then had my breakfast. I was eating it upstairs when F came up to say that the guy was here for the internet.  Okay then.  I went downstairs and basically, F was alone with a box in the living room. They may have done the install, but they don’t help with the set up.

F had a bit of trouble with plugging in wires and such, and couldn’t get the box open at first, but finally got it all set up. He got quite angry at me a couple of times as he doesn’t like it when I speak English to him when he’s reading in Japanese. I tried to ignore it but he was not very nice for a while.

When he got it set up, it was time to connect our phones and my computer. They got done fairly easily….whew! I went upstairs and did my Fire Stick and my printer. That was a bit more complicated as my printer has been acting up lately. I think I did it. 

It was around 1:30 at this time so I asked F what he wanted to do. He suggested lunch at a gyudon shop. I wasn’t too happy about that, but agreed to go. F picked Tsukiya, so off we went. He made a quick stop at a bank first and then we went to the restaurant. F had a gyudon with raw egg and soup, I had the chicken curry. It was curry, Japanese style with a grilled chicken leg on it. I was really pleased! It was delicious. The curry was decent and the chicken was so soft that I could cut it with my spoon!

After lunch I suggested a coffee at Doutor so we drove over to the mall and went in. We had coffee and it was nice…mine was an iced decaf latte. F didn’t talk too much as usual. When we finished our drinks we picked up a few things at the grocery store and then came back to the house. 

I went upstairs and F stayed downstairs. I watched the news and then another episode of Matlock.

Finally, dinner was ready a bit after 7 pm. I went downstairs and this time F didn’t need any help getting things together. There was funny thing happen though. I asked F to change the channel on the TV to the Japan News. He couldn’t. He did get the TV on, but couldn’t do anything else with the TV remote. I suggested the batteries were dead so went upstairs to get new ones. They didn’t work. F tried some old batteries to see if they’d work. No. When we were just about to give up, I noticed that there was a box of masks sitting in front of the TV. F moved it and the remote worked again! Yay!

F had made us a nabe for dinner and I have to say it was pretty good! A lot of times I complain about his nabe, but tonight I didn’t complain. I liked it. What I liked best was that he did the dishes too! Yay. 

I still had to do the garbage up so I kind of worked around F and got it done. It’s a pain because K keeps “helping” with her stuff and putting it places it doesn’t belong at all. Sigh. Still, it got done. I put it in the genkan for F to take out later. 

I went upstairs and relaxed for a bit. I even watched the last episode of season two of Matlock. Whew! One more show finished before the deadline. I have a couple more that I’d really like to watch but I’m not sure if I’ll have time. 

I went downstairs around 10:30 and took a shower. That was about the time F came upstairs! I had a nice shower and then I came back to the room. I watched tonight’s episode of The Irrational which was about robberies of antiquities. It was a pretty good one really. There’s one more episode of this show I believe before it is finished. 

Since midnight I’ve been watching some YouTube and getting ready for going to bed. 

Tomorrow I had hoped to go to a movie, but scheduled stew-making for myself so I can’t do both. There’s either Friday or next week, so you never know. 

I’m glad that we have internet and that it went reasonably smoothly but I do wish that F wouldn’t get so upset at things like this. 

So, that’s it. Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

March 24, 2026

Tuesday - Sunny and cool

I woke up before my alarm this morning. I made my usual trip downstairs and then went back to sleep for a bit! I woke up when F texted me to see if I was okay with the internet set up people coming tomorrow morning instead of the afternoon. I texted him back and said no because he wouldn’t be there! So, he’s going to take the whole day off work instead of just the afternoon. I’m glad, he can deal with the workers instead of me. I usually get stuck with it and his mother and it isn’t pretty I tell you!

I got up and dressed, grabbed my breakfast and came upstairs to eat. I checked my schedule for TV and noticed that a new show starts on Thursday so I set up the DVR. Then I realized that it had started last week and I hadn’t seen the first episode. I found it on streaming, The Rainmaker and watched it. That made a nice change.  Also, I got another letter from my bestie and so I decided to answer her. I wrote her quite a long letter and did that today. 

I went downstairs to get my lunch and then when I ate, I watched an episode of Matlock over lunch and thought it was very interesting. All sorts of goings on there. 

F called to say he was on his way back to the house. I let him know that we had to get groceries later on.  I went downstairs quite soon to get started on dinner.

Tonight I made chicken drumsticks, salad, steamed spicy cabbage and there was rice too. Unfortunately, it didn’t seem to be enough food as both K and F had extra rice and things from the kitchen. Sigh. I had planned to make a dessert if anyone was interested, but I decided not to bother. 

I got started on the dishes early, washed them and put them all away. I listened to parts of 3 podcasts tonight, one on books, one on the Canadian news and another on movies. 

I changed and a little later F and I went out to the grocery store. I wanted to mail my letter on the way to the store….I had suggested we go into the parking of the new drugstore and I’d walk my letter across the street. F didn’t understand and overshot the entrance. He said that there was a car too close to him behind him, but I think he was just making excuses as usual. 

We did our shopping at the store, F is going to cook dinner tomorrow night, so we got food for that and also for Thursday night.

We came back to the house, put away the groceries and this time when I came upstairs I decided to watch another episode of Matlock. I’m getting closer to the end!

Resident Alien was the last show of the night. F went off to bed at the beginning of the show. He’s really tired and has to get up and make breakfast for himself and his mother tomorrow. I get to make my own. Yay. 

So, that was my day. I stayed up a bit late as usual, but will try to get to bed soonish. 

Hopefully I’ll have internet tomorrow night and will be able to post my update. If not, don’t worry too much about it, I’ll get back on line as soon as I can. Come back later if you like and find out what happens!  Until tomorrow….

March 23, 2026

Monday - Sunny with rain in the late afternoon

I woke up just before my alarm went off this morning. I had received a text from F and the chime on my phone woke me up! Oh well. I got up, went downstairs, came back upstairs and then sorted my laundry. I went back to bed for a snooze and then got up a while later. I overslept a bit.

I took my laundry downstairs after I woke up and did a couple of loads today. I have soggy clothes all over my bedroom now!

I had a quiet day really. I did my usual Monday things like backing up my computer and changing out the towels downstairs.

I had lunch but had a strange thing happen. I couldn’t find my bread. I’m sure that I bought a bag yesterday, but I could not find it in my room. I looked downstairs in case it was left in the kitchen, but I couldn’t find it there either. Luckily I had some bread in the freezer so I used that for lunch.

While I ate lunch I watched an episode of Elsbeth and enjoyed it as usual. I’ve got about 6 left. I hope I can finish it before the end of the month.

Around 5 pm I went downstairs to wash my day’s dishes and made a sad discovery. We didn’t have any hot water. It seemed that F hadn’t refilled the kerosene in the water heater for a long time. I can’t do it because the heater intake valve is high up and I can’t lift up the kerosene tanks. Sigh. 

F called me after 5 pm to say he was on his way back. He stopped at a grocery store to pick up something for his mother’s dinner and lunch. He also got me a bag of bread, which I appreciated very much. 

I changed into clothes for going out and waited for F to get back. When he did, I told him about the water heater and asked him to put some in later. He changed his clothes and then we left. I think he might have given his mother her bento. He did have to get her up to do that. 

F and I drove over to Tacto, the concert hall. We showed our aquarium member cards at the door and went in. We got seats about halfway back from the stage area and I was sitting out in the aisle. I had a really good view, I’m not sure if F did or not. I made a quick trip to the washroom before the concert.

It started promptly at 7:00 and was…odd. The first few numbers were more impressions of jellyfish or something. It was okay, but I wasn’t really enjoying it until I realized that it was the impression thing. The concert ended on time at 8:00pm and then F and I just left. 

I suggested Gusto for dinner as they have brought back their 4 item dinner. It’s a decent deal, you can have 4 dishes from a fixed menu, plus drink bar and their soup are included. F had curry and rice, shrimp and oysters, fried mackerel and rice and I can’t remember his other dish. I had the regular hamburger with gravy, small fries, a steamed chicken salad, and a bowl of kara-age. It was good.  I had been really hungry so I needed a lot of food!

We left Gusto and went to the gas station. F bought some kerosene and then we went back to the house. At the house, he filled up the water heater’s kerosene tank, his mother’s kerosene tank for her heater and I filled up our tank upstairs. I brought down my towel and took a shower. 

When I came back upstairs I asked F to make some rice for dinner tomorrow night and he said he would. He went downstairs and he said he set up the rice cooker. I’m glad! I watched Saturday’s episode of The Hunting Party. It was….okay. I’m still not sure about the show. It’s a low rent Criminal Minds in my opinion. 

After midnight I turned off the TV and got into my end of day things. 

Tomorrow I’ll be back to my usual cooking thing. I’m not terribly happy about that! Oh, I should say that we will be changing internet providers on Wednesday so it is possible that I won’t be able to connect for a while. F is going to be around to “help” but I’m the only one with a working computer here so it’ll probably fall on me to figure it out. Sigh. Last time we changed providers it wasn’t a happy thing, it isn’t this time either as I’m not wanting this. Oh well. I hope my husband knows what he is doing!

Well, that’s it for tonight. Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow…. 

March 22, 2026

 Sunday - Muggy and warmish

I woke up rather late this morning when my alarm went off. F was still in bed which did surprise me. I went downstairs and then went back to bed for a bit. 

I got out of bed around 11, dressed and just waited to see what F wanted to do. When I woke up the second time, F had disappeared. When I had to make a trip downstairs an hour later I saw F by himself in the living room. We talked about what to do and decided we’d go to an Indian Restaurant for lunch. Yay!

We drove off a few minutes later and ended up at the Indian Restaurant. I had the chicken curry and F had the saag keema curry. I had mine at a spice level of 4 so F changed his to make it hotter. I liked mine that hot, he didn’t like his as much. Sorry, I’ve been building up a resistance to heat, he hasn’t. I had to have a second naan to finish my curry but I couldn’t quite finish it. After our meal, when we were sitting in the car again, we decided to go back to the house and sleep!

I changed my clothes back into my pyjamas and went to bed. F also came to bed but didn’t take off his outdoor clothes. Yuck!  We fell asleep…I ended up sleeping for 3 hours. I got up around 6 pm and went down and checked on F. We talked about grocery shopping and off we went. We also decided to get bentos for dinner tonight…except F had already made rice so he didn’t want to get bentos, he wanted to buy stuff without rice. Sigh. 

He got fish for his mother and himself, I got subuta and picked up some onion rings. I got stuff for K’s breakfast and lunch tomorrow, then dinner on Tuesday. We came back to the house and F immediately started making dinner for himself and his mother. I put the groceries away and then waited until F got out of my way. Honestly, after I heated up my food, I grabbed a little rice and plated my food. I took it upstairs to eat. I couldn’t face sitting in the living room with the TV blaring and F yelling at his mother so I just chilled upstairs.

After I finished I went downstairs and washed my dishes and chatted with F. We realized that we forgot to pick up a couple of things for the house earlier, so we went out again! We just popped over to the drugstore on the far side of the park and picked up some tissues for K, low sodium soy sauce for us and some TP for the house. 

We unpacked at the house and then I went upstairs. I decided to watch a couple of shows and do a little loom knitting. First up I watched an episode of Matlock, then Evil and to change the mood, I watched The Studio. It was quite a good night. 

F headed off to bed after he took a shower and I turned off the TV after midnight. I’ve just been doing my usual night-time stuff. 

Tomorrow night we’re planning to go to a concert so I won’t be cooking dinner. I’m glad for my extended holiday from cooking and cleaning up afterwards. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

March 21, 2026

Saturday - Cooler but sunny

Today was a day! I woke up this morning after 9am. I noticed F’s wallet on the table and thought I’d see if I could catch him before he left. However, when I got downstairs he was sitting at the table with K, and they were both eating breakfast. I gave him his wallet and when he stood up to get it, I noticed he was still wearing pyjama bottoms. I asked him when he was going to leave. He looked puzzled and said,”Leave?” I said to him,”It’s Saturday. Don’t you have to take your mother to Day Service?” He looked a bit surprised! Because Friday was a holiday he’d forgotten that today was Saturday and he was supposed to take his mother to go to the Day Service! He phoned them to let them know that K would be late!

I went back to bed and slept a bit longer. After that, I got up and took a shower.  I talked to F to see if he got his mother safely away-he did. I asked if he wanted to go for lunch and he said he did, but couldn’t think of a place I’d want to go. I told him that I didn’t want to go to a ramen place, but apart from that, try me. He came up with a good place and I said it was fine. I so dislike it when he gets whiny and says that I never say yes to his restaurants. I don’t like bad restaurants and half the time those are what he suggests. 

We drove off to Naa and parked and went in. We did change our table as the first one had uncomfortable chairs. F had the smaller lunch as he had already eaten breakfast with his mother. I had pork and fish and it was really nice. 

After lunch, we headed back into Tsuruoka and stopped off at the Kimuraya Bakery factory store. We went in and got a treat for both of us and K too. F got the coffee cups they give out. He had two cups of coffee and I bought myself a bottle of Royal Milk Tea. We used our phones for a bit. I suggested that we make a stop at the nearby hundred yen shop as I wanted to see something. 

Next up we went to the Daiso nearby. I did a little shopping and bought a few things. Nothing was too exotic or special. 

After Daiso we went back to the house. As usual, I headed upstairs and F stayed downstairs for a while. 

K came back to the house and F welcomed her back. He also made her some dinner when the time came.

Around 6:45 or so F came upstairs and we talked about our dinner and if we were going to the movie. F said yes to the movie so I suggested either a gyudon shop or the bibinba place in the mall. He chose the bibinba place which was fine with me. 

We drove out to the mall and we had our dinner first. I got my bibinba and F bought himself some yakisoba and okonomiyaki. After we ate, we bought the tickets. I thought we’d get a free movie ticket tonight since I got one last time I went to the movie, but we didn’t. Sigh. We did buy our popcorn and drinks and when the movie was called, went into the cinema. 

We went to see Project Hail Mary tonight and it was great. I think it might be one of my favourites this year, it’s that good. I might even try and read the book if I can get a copy of it. F even loved it too, which really pleased me.

After the movie we drove back to Tsuruoka and came back to the house. F had to think about K’s breakfast for the morning but I don’t think it hurt his brain too much!

So that was my day. It started with a bit of confusion and ended nicely, with a good movie and a bit of Ryan Gosling! 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

 

March 20, 2026

Friday - Sunny and warm, torrential rain at night

F had asked that we go out for soba for lunch today. He’d actually asked a couple of days ago so I said sure. He’d also said last night that he’d like to leave around 11:30 so I had to get up before then, obviously!  I woke up this morning before F got up, and before my alarm went off. I went downstairs and then came back to bed. I had a bit of a snuggle with the mister and then I went back to sleep and he got up.

I slept on and did wake up a bit later when my alarms started going off. I got up and did a pedicure and then I went downstairs to see F. We decided we’d leave in a few minutes. 

We drove out into the wilderness around Tsuruoka and finally came to the soba restaurant. It was very busy. One of the features of this place is they have a pickle buffet! Around here, they make pickles out of everything so it is very popular. After we were seated, F and I had the same thing, ten-zaru soba, so cold soba with tempura. It was nice, but personally I missed the protein. One shrimp doesn’t really cut it for me. 

Soba, pickles and tempura in the background.

We left and then went to Komeda Coffee. We went in and stayed for quite a while. I had an iced coffee and it was really nice…caffeine free of course. 

We came back to the house and I went upstairs. F was going to change the water in his fish tank. Oh, by the way, K had gone out in the afternoon with F’s sister, so that was nice for her. While I was upstairs, I watched an episode of Elsbeth. Yay me.

A little before 5 pm I went downstairs and soon after the Day Care Manager came. It was a bit of an odd meeting today. F talked a lot to her, I’m not always sure what he was talking about. We made an appointment for next month. Our choices were a national holiday again or a Saturday…well, considering we have to be back on Saturday for K to come back, I’ll take another Saturday. It’s quite ridiculous in my opinion. I’m not happy that two days of this weekend are dedicated to the old lady who dislikes me.

F made dinner for K and I went upstairs and waited. I spent time on my computer and relaxed a bit. Around 7:30 when F hadn’t appeared to talk about dinner, I texted him to see if he would like to go to one of two possible restaurants. He came upstairs in a few minutes and suggested one of the two places. We went off and had dinner at China House. 

Tonight I had Yurinchi and it was very nice. We seemed to be the only customers so we were fed fairly quickly. F had Liver and Nila again. Shudder. I’m not a liver person. 

After dinner we went to the grocery store and bought a few things. Most of it was for K’s breakfast tomorrow but F and I got ice cream for ourselves for tonight. 

When we came back to the house we put away the groceries and then I filled up the kerosene tank for us upstairs and took it up. I watched an episode of Matlock and enjoyed that. I’m trying to finish as many episodes of these two shows as they will leave my streaming service at the end of the month. I’m having to forget about a couple of series along the way which does annoy me.

F and I had our ice cream quite late, and then he headed to bed. I’m still up of course. I decided I’d try to take my shower tomorrow morning. I personally prefer morning showers but I rarely get to take a shower in the daytime here. 

I’m not sure what we’ll get up to tomorrow. I’m hoping that we’ll go to the movie in the evening, but who knows. F isn’t feeling well these days, his back is bothering him again so sitting in a cinema for more than 2 hours isn’t great for him. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….