October 29, 2025

Wednesday - Sunny but cool


I woke up this morning before my alarm, but after F had left for work. That was nice. I went downstairs, came back to the room and went back to bed. I watched videos for a while, but woke up a bit later. I got up, much earlier than I have in ages! I dressed and then went downstairs with our kerosene tank. I filled up our tank and also K’s in the living room. I wanted her to be warm if she got up during the day. I took the full tank upstairs and then went downstairs again. I made and brought my breakfast up to the room and then ate it.


I had a quiet morning and afternoon. I watched some YouTube videos and relaxed a bit. It was nice.


I made my lunch at my usual time and then watched another episode of NCIS: Los Angeles. It was quite good. I followed that up with the news.


F called around 5:30 so I went downstairs to get started on dinner. Tonight I did a pork stir-fry with a mix from the store. It had konbu and carrots in it, I added some chikuwa and cabbage too. It got rave reviews. We had that with rice and potato salad and salad. Yum.


After dinner I washed the dishes and then did the garbage up in the kitchen. I added on garbage from the living room and K even brought hers out. I sealed the bag and put it in the genkan for F to take out later.


I told F I was done and that I would go and change my clothes so we could go out. A few minutes later we drove over to Mina and I went in and did the shopping. I got most of the things on my list and then went through the cashier’s line. 


F and I came back to the house and put away the groceries. We had planned to get some kerosene tonight, but didn’t. 


We had a quiet night in. I watched Wildcards tonight and it was set on a ranch. The ranch owner was played by Ally Sheedy…from The Breakfast Club! That was kind of cool. She looked quite different than she did in the 80’s!


After midnight I wrote some email, one to my sister, one to my bestie. I’ve owed her for a few days now. Unfortunately, writing two emails has made me quite late to get to bed. 


Well, that’s about it for me. Not sure what I’ll get up to tomorrow. Come back later if you like and see. Until tomorrow…. 

October 28, 2025

Tuesday - Rainy and cold


I went to bed a bit late last night but for some reason I woke up before 6 am. I had to make a quick trip downstairs but came back to bed and fell asleep again. F didn’t sleep well at all and was awake when I came back to the room again. I think he got up around then. 


I woke up later after my alarms went off. I got up, went downstairs, came back to the room and gave myself a bit of a pedicure. I also sorted my laundry before I went back to bed again. I slept a bit late today!


I got up and dressed, then went downstairs with my laundry. I started my first load. I went and got my breakfast and then took it upstairs to eat. 


I watched some YouTube and over the next couple of hours did two loads of laundry which I hung up in the room. 


I had lunch a bit later and went downstairs to make it. I brought it upstairs and ate it. I watched another episode of NCIS: Los Angeles today too. F called after 5 and then I went downstairs and got a start on dinner. 


F came back soon afterwards and we had a nice reunion. I got busy soon afterwards. Today we had toaster oven chicken, mixed vegetables, potato salad and salad. F hadn’t made more rice last night, which surprised me. Still there was enough for F and K so that was good. 


After dinner I did the dishes and put them away. I went into the living room to tell F that I was done and he said he had to go to a drugstore. He asked if I wanted to go too and I said sure. I changed my clothes and a few minutes later we went out.


We went over to the Tsuruha on the other side of the park. It was still open. F got his stuff and I got a packet of laundry detergent. We picked up a few snacks for ourselves and then we paid and left.


We came back to the house and went in. I went upstairs and changed into my PJs. I wanted to relax. F came upstairs a few minutes later and then he relaxed too.


A few minutes before my 11pm show, I went downstairs and made some popcorn for myself. I dowsed it with some butter and Worchestershire sauce. It’s yum!


I came upstairs and watched FBI: Most Wanted which was a bit dumb today. Oh well. 


So, that’s about it for my day. It was quiet so that was good! I even got out of the house today, so that was bonus too. 


Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow…. 

October 27, 2025

 Monday - Rainy in the morning, sunny in the afternoon


Today was an odd day. It did not go the way I thought it would!


I woke up before 8 am. I wasn’t sure why. I got up and then noticed that I’d had a call from my husband. I tried to call him back, couldn’t. He called me back a few seconds later. He said that he was taking the day off as he had to go to City Hall. Okay then. Why did he have to wake me up to tell me that? I went back to bed and slept quite a long time.


When I woke up later, F had gone out to do something. He did some of his City Hall stuff too. He came back with some bakery goods as well. I got up, dressed and went downstairs. I made my breakfast for myself and was a bit surprised to see that someone may have been in my cereal as it wasn’t sealed properly. I know that I sealed it correctly last week. 


I took my food upstairs and ate, then I had one of F’s baked things. I had a croissant with some coffee. I was pretty grumpy this morning! Then, F announced that he wanted me to go to City Hall with him. I told him I didn’t need to. Then he remembered that he could get the papers cheaper at the convenience store, but I had to go with him. I really didn’t want to so I was less than gracious. 


Finally, I decided that I wouldn’t get any peace until I did what he wanted, so I got dressed and said I’d go. I went outside for a few minutes before F was quite ready and it was glorious. The weather was slightly cold, the wind was nice, clearing away the cobwebs in my brain, so when F came outside to the car, I was in a much better mood!


We went to the Conbini and did our stuff. F was quite happy. We talked about what to do next, I suggested coffee and F said that he’d like to go to Maruike-Sama pond north of Sakata. We did both!


We went to Doutor in S-Mall and both had some decaf coffee. We enjoyed ourselves there. I checked on when the sun was going to set and it was around 4:45 today, so I suggested that if we were still going to go, we should go soon. 


We drove out to Maruike-sama pond. I’m afraid that I fell asleep a couple of times on the way out there.  We arrived at the salmon fishing area, parked and got out of the car. We tried to see some salmon. There were a few, but they were tiny, not the big monsters we’ve seen before. We started walking over to the pond and followed the trail. We saw the pond, saw the little shrine just beyond our first stopping point. F wanted to walk a little more, but I pointed out that it was 4:15 and the sun was already going down…It was quite dark in the trees and well, there are bears around so I’d rather not be walking in a forest after dark. He agreed and we headed back to the car. 


Maruike-sama- beautiful and supposedly a power spot

Shrine on the side of the pond

We drove back to the main road through some tiny little roads that were scary. On the main road finally, F asked if I’d like to stop at a road stop and I said yes. We made a pit stop and then we went into the bakery there and bought a few things.


We drove back towards Tsuruoka and on the way I asked F what we should do for dinner. I originally had planned to cook, but didn’t want to anymore! We decided to get bentos, and then I mentioned that F had made rice last night for tonight’s dinner. We decided that we’d get some food from the grocery store and have that. 


We went to a store and picked up some stuff. We got some yakitori for F and I, and some fish for K. I got her something for her lunch tomorrow as well. We paid and left.


Next up was the gas station. F needed gas in the car. It said he could still drive 46km, but that isn’t very much. He doesn’t understand how important it is to keep the car gassed up. I try to explain how in Canada in winter, a full tank of gas could save your life, but he doesn’t take it to heart.


We came back to the house and discovered that F hadn’t made rice last night after all. He decided to make some right away, but it would take an hour. We whiled away the hour by being on our phones and watching the news. I heated up the food when the rice cooker was nearly ready and we got K up. 


We had a nice little feast. K as usual gave F half of her fish as it was “too much” but he gave her one of his sticks of yakitori so I guess it balanced. We had a bun from the bakery north of Sakata as our dessert. Well, K and I did. F kept his.


I got gifted with the dishes so I did them and then said goodnight to the others and went upstairs. I did my usual internet stuff and then went downstairs to take a shower. F had just come into our room at that point. 


I watched an episode of The Studio when I came back to the room and enjoyed it a bit. I’m still not sure if I like the show or not. 


And that’s about it for my day. F should be going back to work tomorrow and I’ll maybe get some of my personal stuff done that needs doing. I also want to start on some of my Christmas cards. I can’t send any to Canada yet as there’s a mail strike again, but I’d like to write some cards to people in other countries. I’d get a head start for a change. 


Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

October 26, 2025

Sunday - Rainy, cloudy and cool


I went to bed rather late last night and this morning I slept in a bit late. It was nice not to wake up early for a change. I gingerly got up, but the room didn’t spin. It moved a little, but a couple of seconds later I was fine. I went downstairs then came back upstairs and went back to bed for a little while. I tried to use my phone to access the internet, but it didn’t work. I ended up texting F and asking him if he’d forgotten to pay the internet bill! He said it worked downstairs, but later found out it didn’t. He came upstairs and called the internet company. He also found the bill and the due date was tomorrow. The internet company suggested restarting our router or something and that seemed to work. Yay.


I waited for F to tell me what he’d like to do for brunch and I didn’t have long to wait. He suggested contacting the restaurant that we went to last week and asking for some pasta without tomato sauce. I was okay with that. I’d had an idea for lunch, but was fine with his idea. He called the restaurant but there was no answer. We decided to go somewhere else, but the guy from the restaurant called him back and said that it was fine if we came and he could make us some pasta. Yay.


We jumped in the car and drove over there. We were the only customers in the restaurant and the chef was working alone. F ordered us carbonara and we helped ourself to soup. The chef gave us some salad and carrot rappé while we waited. The pasta carbonara was very nice when it arrived. It tasted good, even if the sauce was a bit clumpy. 


After lunch I was a bit sleepy. We ran a few errands. First up, a quick drugstore visit, then we went to Gyomu Supa. I went in and bought a few things for the house. I got us some potato salad, some frozen veggies, some baby cheese, and a few other things. Oh, oatmeal. I got my Canadian oatmeal. Yay. F needed a bank afterwards and then we went back to the house. 


I put away the shopping and then went upstairs. My plan was to take a nap, but I never actually did that. I was on my computer for a long time and then F came upstairs and started talking about dinner. He wanted to make me some yakisoba. I said no thank you. He said it would be better than last time and I said no thank you. Apart from the fact that I didn’t believe it would be better, I’d had pasta or noodles at least once a day since Friday and I didn’t want anymore today. He went downstairs to make some for his mother.


Next thing I knew F was upstairs in the room eating yakisoba. He said he made too much for his mother so he had to eat it. He tried to make me have some but I refused nicely.


We still had to go out and have dinner and also buy our groceries for the next couple of days. F didn’t really have any ideas for dinner so I suggested the Chinese restaurant on the other side of the park. He grudgingly agreed. 


We went in the car and drove around the park. Just as we got close to the restaurant, he speeded up! Of course, we passed the restaurant and I told him that I didn’t see outside lights, but I did see lights in the restaurant. He turned the car around and we went over to the restaurant. 


It was actually open and there was parking available. Woot. We went in and had a look at the menu. We decided we’d each order a dish and share them. I had mapo-dofu on rice, F had fried rice. We also ordered some gyoza to share. The food, when it arrived a few minutes later, was good and we enjoyed our meal. F seemed a bit surprised that it was good, but I wasn’t. 


We paid and left, then headed over to the grocery store. I went in and did the shopping. I enjoyed being out of the car for a while.


After I shopped, I went out to the car and we came back to the house. I put away the groceries and then headed upstairs to relax. I decided that I’d watch something off the Fire Stick tonight so ended up watching the second episode of Cardinal and the first episode of Lazarus. It’s a brand new Prime show that is showing promise. It has Bill Nighy and Sam Claflin in it. When the programmes were over I turned over to WOWOW and watched the end of Poor Things. I still like that movie.


And that’s about it for my day. I did some knitting during my shows tonight. I didn’t say, but I frogged the first hat attempt as it was still too big and now I’m trying again. It’s going fairly well, but I won’t know for a bit if it’ll fit me or not. I hope so!


Come back later if you like and find out all about my Monday. Until tomorrow….

October 25, 2025

Saturday - Cloudy but warmish


I went to bed about an hour late last night, but slept fairly well for a few hours. I woke up around 7:30 which was rather disappointing as I didn’t need to. F was sitting up in bed with his computer. I sat up to get ready to go downstairs…and the room started spinning. Oh no.  I grabbed the door near my bed and closed my eyes. F did ask what was wrong and I told him the room was spinning. It slowed down enough for me to finally stand up and go downstairs. I came back to the room and to be honest, just went back to bed and slept a bit more.


I woke up next around 11 and finally got up. The room started spinning again, but slower than before. Happily, it did stop after a minute. I got dressed and went downstairs. I put on my black jeans, I haven’t been able to wear them in ages as they are quite heavy and much too warm for summer. 


I texted a bit with my friend in Sakata. When F came upstairs to talk about lunch, he suggested going to Sakata to the Thai restaurant. I was fine with that, and asked him if he thought we could meet up with my friend. He said it was a good idea, so I asked her if today was okay and she said yes.


We drove to Sakata and parked in the city hall parking. Apparently there was an election going on so the lot was busy and they asked F if he was there for the election. I’m afraid that he wasn’t honest about it! We went over to the restaurant and went in. I had Pad Thai which was okay but honestly not that great, F had Gapao Rice. I should have had that again! Over lunch I texted my friend and asked where we should meet. She invited us over to her house, so we went.


We had a lovely visit with my friend. We had tea and a lot of chat. We haven’t seen each other in a few months so we had a lot to talk about. We talked a lot about movies! My favourite topic most of the time. 


All too soon we had to leave as we had to be back in the house for K to come back from Day Service. We drove back to Tsuruoka and had enough time to visit a grocery store for some snacks and a bento for K’s dinner. 


We made it back to the house by about 4:25 and K was returned a few minutes later. Safe! 


I spent some time upstairs and relaxed with YouTube and my favourite websites, then after 6:30 F started asking about our dinner. I spent some time on my phone’s map app and found a place that I’d never heard of. It turned out it was in Yutagawa which is rather far from here. F was game so we drove out there and….it was closed. We have no idea if it is a permanent thing or just tonight. However, Saturday night is often a busy night for restaurants so….


We ended up driving back into Tsuruoka and going to Misono for dinner. F had a Tendon teishoku or tempura on rice set meal, I had kara-age without rice. It came with a bit of salad and some potato salad. It was huge!


When we came back to the house I suggested to F that we have our ice cream now. K was still up. We had bought ice cream all round at the grocery store today. We all sat in the living room and ate our ice cream. It was a tea with cookie flavour and was very nice. I think it was nice for K to have family time. I hope it was!


I washed the spoons and then headed upstairs. I relaxed with some YouTube again and then at 11pm I watched FBI. It was a good episode tonight. 


F has been sleeping on and off for the last couple of hours and I’m getting tired. I really don’t know what happened this morning with the dizziness. I hope that it doesn’t happen tomorrow too. I’ll keep you posted.


That’s it for me. Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

October 24, 2025

Friday - Sunny but cool


I woke up this morning when F’s alarm clock rang at 7 am. Where was F? Downstairs. I had to go downstairs, but I heard him coming up the stairs. I congratulated him that his alarm clock still worked and he did have the grace to look sheepish!


I came back to the room and just sat on the bed while F finished getting ready for work. He even kissed me goodbye so that was nice! After F left, I went back to bed and snoozed for a while. I got up around 10 and went downstairs, then came back to the room and went back to bed for a bit. I watched some videos and then I ended up falling asleep again and slept a little late. 


I got up, dressed myself again, and went downstairs and made some porridge for myself. I finished up the bag of rolled oats so I won’t have any until I get more. I brought my breakfast upstairs to eat. 


I had a fairly relaxed afternoon today. I didn’t get too much accomplished. I went downstairs to make my lunch later on. I had a second bowl of my stew and it was delish! I brought my lunch upstairs and again watched NCIS: Los Angeles. It was good I think. 


F called around 5:30 tonight and then I went downstairs and started on dinner. Tonight I did spaghetti with Alfredo sauce, salad and bacon. I don’t think the pasta sauce was that popular as no one else had seconds. I liked it. 


I did the dishes and listened to my podcasts. First up, Canadian news and then my movie podcast from Britain. It’s great and the broadcasters are excellent. I finally finished and tonight just went upstairs. I didn’t bother to say goodnight to either K nor F. 


I relaxed with some YouTube and a cup of cocoa.When I finished that I decided to go down and take my shower. However, F came back upstairs just as I was leaving! I said I was just on my way downstairs and went.


I had a good shower and then came back upstairs. I had decided that I’d watch a video off the DVR tonight so I chose Daredevil, the Director’s cut. I’d seen the original when it came out. It was quite good. I thought that Daredevil was very close to Batman, at least in the movie and since Ben Affleck played both, it wasn’t a stretch really. It was also nice to see Colin Farrell chewing the scenery as Bullseye. 


And after the movie, I turned to some music and then some YouTube. I’m off to bed soon and then I have no idea what will happen on Saturday. 


Come back later if you like and hear about what I get up to on Saturday. Until tomorrow….

October 23, 2025

Thursday - Warmish and sunny


I woke up this morning when my alarm went off. I went downstairs and then came back to the room. I sorted my laundry a bit and then I went back to bed. I watched a couple of videos and then fell asleep. I slept for a while, but did drag myself out of bed earlier than yesterday. I think.


I went downstairs and made myself some porridge again, brought it upstairs to eat. I watched a bit of YouTube but also had to hang up my laundry when it was finished. I went downstairs a little early to make my lunch. Today I had a bowl of yesterday’s stew, plus some toast for lunch. It was delish! I watched another episode of NCIS: Los Angeles while I was eating. 


I watched the news and shook my head at some of it, then turned off the TV again. I expected F to call me, but he hadn’t called by 5:45, so I just went downstairs. He called a little after 6 to say he was on the way. 


Tonight I made chicken drumsticks in the air fryer, salad, and a self-made cucumber and tuna spicy salad. It was good! At the end, I asked F if I should add on some spinach as I had some in the freezer. He said yes, so I cooked it in the microwave. 


We started dinner and I put the spinach on the table. F wanted soy sauce and ginger for it. We found him some. Then, during dinner he announced that he preferred spinach to be stir-fried. I thought that was a bit choice since I had just about 5 minutes to get the spinach on the table. I told him bluntly that he could cook it next time. Then he pronounced that he also liked spinach boiled. I’m not sure why he keeps telling me things like that. I will never serve him spinach again. I don’t need him complaining all over the place. 


For a man who is a horrible cook, I’m not sure why he complains about my food or tries to give me “cooking advice”. He doesn’t know what he is talking about. 


After dinner, I got to do the dishes and listen to my podcasts. I finished up and went upstairs to change my clothes.


F and I went over to Mina and I went in and bought the groceries. I didn’t buy very much and I didn’t buy everything that I should have! I forgot to get myself some cold meat for my sandwich tomorrow. I mentioned it to F and then I got a lecture about how much salt there is in sandwich meat. I asked him what I was supposed to eat instead and he had no answer. 


I put the groceries away and then I went upstairs for a while. I relaxed and then at 11pm watched The Rookie. It was based on April Fools’ Day and was quite interesting.


After midnight, I turned off the TV and watched some YouTube before i got on with my end of day stuff.


That’s it for me. Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….