September 4, 2026

 Friday - Cloudy and cooler, some rain

I didn’t have a good night. F didn’t have a good night either. He tossed and turned a lot. I woke up around 6:30 because I was cold and I had to go downstairs. I came back to bed and managed another couple of hours of sleep. When I woke up next time, F was gone.

I got up and went downstairs, then came back to bed and watched videos for a couple of hours. I ended up getting up earlier than I had planned. I got dressed and went downstairs. I brought up my breakfast and ate in the room. 

It was cool enough today that I didn’t have to use the air conditioner at all. I used my fan a lot though. 

In the afternoon I sorted out my laundry and took my basket downstairs. I did two loads and hung it up in my room. I also wrote a couple of postcards for Postcrossing. I wrote one before lunch and one after lunch. 

I grabbed my lunch and brought it upstairs. I decided to watch an episode of Modern Love, which today had Dev Patel and Catherine Keener. It was a really nice one about lost loves. It is around 30 minutes per episode so sometimes that is better than an hour show of something else.

I watched the news and then scanned my cards and uploaded the pictures to the website. I waited but didn’t hear from F. I thought he’d get over himself before coming back, but I guess not. 

I went downstairs and washed the dishes. I texted F and he walked in the house about 5 seconds later. He was still in a mood. He said he didn’t want to eat with me but he did want me to cook for his mother. Or something. He grabbed something out of the fridge and suggested I cook it, but I told him that I had a different idea. He didn’t ask what it was. I left. He was going to cook something for himself and his mother I thought. 

I went upstairs and a few minutes later F came upstairs with a bowl of food. I asked him if he made something for his mother and he said no. Not a fan of that. He stuffs his face but doesn’t feed his mother. 

I went downstairs again and made some fried rice. I’ve never actually made it before and it turned out fairly well. I had some frozen gyoza in the freezer, so I heated those up too. K and I had a nice little feast of fried rice and gyoza. 

After our dinner I did the dishes and listened to my podcasts. When I finished, I went back upstairs. I turned off F’s light for him and went over to my computer. I watched a bit of YouTube and then after 10pm I went downstairs to take a shower. F was quite asleep. 

I was surprised to see K up and cooking something in the kitchen. Honestly, it’s a bit scary as she sometimes forgets to turn off the stove, but it looked like she made something with miso. I don’t know if she was hungry or if she was trying to use something up before it got thrown out. No worries. 

I showered and when I came out of the shower, K was gone, hopefully back to bed. It makes me a bit worried that F didn’t talk to her, I hope that he reminded her about her day service tomorrow.

I came up to the room and F was still asleep. I decided to watch something on my computer rather than on the TV. I can wear earphones on my computer. I settled on the first episode of the third season of Shrinking. It was really good, Michael J. Fox was in it. Harrison Ford is so good in this series. He is quite funny. 

After that, I went back to YouTube and doing my usual end of day things. I’m getting ready to go to bed soon. I’m hoping that F will cheer up and be a little nicer tomorrow. If he isn’t, I’ll take myself out for a couple of hours, buy myself some lunch and maybe something for dinner if necessary. 

Anyway, come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

September 3, 2026

Thursday - Cooler but muggy, rain at night

Today wasn’t a great day, sad to say.

I woke up probably just after F left today. I made my trip downstairs and then came back upstairs to the room. I went back to bed for a while and snoozed a bit while watching some videos. I got a text from F around 10:30 and then he called me. He said he would take time off later in the day. 

I dressed, went downstairs and then came back upstairs to the room. I relaxed on the bed for a while but didn’t sleep, I just watched some videos. 

I got up, went downstairs for my breakfast and then came back to the room. I ate and checked the movie, nope, not today. I watched a lot of YouTube and then worked on my letter to my bestie. I got it done later on. Yay.

I went downstairs to get my lunch and brought it upstairs. I was going to watch something but F called to say he was on his way back to Tsuruoka. He needed some paperwork for his next doctor’s appointment, so he stopped off on the way to get it. 

He came back to the house and we had a nice reunion. I even gave him a cup of my nice pistachio au lait. 

I watched the news and then went downstairs and got started on dinner around 6pm. Today I made a chicken and hijiki dish, plus we had some air-fried cauliflower, salad and rice. F came down a few minutes early and was just sitting at the table waiting for me to serve him.

I was made to get the rice out, so I served K first. I guess that I gave her too much so she passed her plate to F, but I didn’t see that because I had my back to the table getting out F’s rice. When I tried to give F a bigger portion of rice, he already had a plate full. I didn’t really understand what was going on and then gave F the plate too. All of a sudden he overturned the plate and mushed all the rice together, yelled,”You are so rude” and stormed off. 

I didn’t really know what I did. I gave K some of the rice from F’s plate, put most of the rest back in the rice cooker and took a little for myself. K and I ate dinner but I was quite upset. I’d worked quite hard on dinner tonight and thought it was very nice. 

I washed the dishes when we finished eating. I listened to a couple of podcasts too. 

I went upstairs when I finished and asked F what was going on. We were supposed to go out tonight but I didn’t want to go out with F. I told him that I didn’t have anything for K’s breakfast tomorrow. He disappeared for a couple of hours which was nice for me!

He must have gone to the store as I say he had onigiri for his breakfast, and I noticed something else for K in the fridge. He also brought me a cake but didn’t give it to me directly, he left it on my stuff!

I watched The Rookie tonight and it was a different one. It was about making a documentary about a series of murders. It was quite a nice surprise, and rather funny for a change.

F and I have talked a little. I asked him to mail my letter for me tomorrow, he said he would. He’s still up, or not sleeping well. I’m not really too happy about things. This is happening about 2 weeks before our anniversary. 

Anyway, come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow. 

September 2, 2026

Wednesday - Hot but humid, some rain.

I had my usual morning today. I woke up when my alarm went off, went downstairs and then came back to bed. I did get up a few minutes earlier than usual today, but didn’t go down very early.

I went downstairs and got my breakfast and brought it upstairs to eat. I had some of my new cereal and it was very nice! I picked up the letter I was writing to my friend and wrote a little more, but still didn’t finish it yet.

I went downstairs around 3 and made my lunch. I came back to our room and ate. I watched an episode of Matlock. I’m hoping that some of the double crossing stuff will end soon. It’s driving me nuts.

I finally heard that the editor of the Journal did receive my column so that’s good!I was getting a little worried!

After lunch, I watched the news and then a bit after 5 F called to say he was on his way back. I changed into my kitchen kit and then went downstairs. Tonight I made buta-kimchi or pork stir-fry with kimchi. We had that with salad, potato salad and rice.

After dinner I cleared the table and did the dishes. When I finished the dishes I started to do the garbage. F did help with K’s garbage from her room. 

I went upstairs when I was done and watched some YouTube. Then, I went downstairs and took a shower. When I finished my shower, I came upstairs and watched tonight’s Grey’s Anatomy. It was fine. 

After the show, I turned off the TV and went back to YouTube. I also worked on my end of day stuff and I’m nearly done now. 

Tomorrow I’m not sure what I’ll get up to. I’ll probably work on my letter, hopefully a postcard or two as well. I’m also making a Japanese style dinner so I hope that goes well!

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

September 1, 2026

Tuesday - Mostly hot and sunny

I didn’t hear F leave for work in the morning, I slept on until my alarm went off. I got up then and made a trip downstairs. When I came back to the room I sorted out my laundry and put it aside for later. Then, I had some video and snoozing time. 

I woke up a bit late and took my laundry downstairs to start. Unfortunately, F had forgotten to take his stuff out of the laundry. I’m rather mean in those circumstances, I turfed his laundry into the laundry basket in the room and then put my first load in! I didn’t throw it on the floor so I feel I was rather restrained!

I got a Postcrossing card in the mail today from the US. I’m receiving quite a few from the US these days. 

When I came back up to the room with my breakfast it was nearly time to get my first load out. I changed the laundry and then came back upstairs. I hung up my stuff and then ate my very late breakfast!

After the laundry was done, I watched a bit of YouTube and finally it was lunch time! I went downstairs to make my lunch and brought it upstairs to eat. Today I watched an episode of Elsbeth as I didn’t want anything too taxing on my brain. When it was over I watched the news and also started a letter to my bestie. I haven’t written in ages as I usually don’t when I have a column to write.

F called around 5:30 to say he was on his way back and so I changed my clothes and went downstairs a little later. 

I did the dishes downstairs, and made dinner too of course. Tonight we had chicken drumsticks in the air fryer and German potato salad, salad, cucumber pickle and then rice. It was quite good, even if I say so myself. And I do!

I did the dishes afterwards and then went upstairs to change. I got ready, grabbed a mask and then had to wait a little for F. We got in the car and drove over to Mina. 

Of course, F had to come in with me again. He wanted adult beverages. I did most of the shopping while he did whatever he usually does. I was looking for cucumbers and didn’t want to get the ones in the open box. They were from another prefecture and everyone and their uncle had been breathing on them and grabbing them all day. My husband included. I went over to the local produce area and they had nice looking cucumbers in a plastic bag. They were dated today and were from this area. I put them in the basket. F decided they weren’t fresh enough and went back to the other open box and brought back three cucumbers. He made the mistake of asking me how many I wanted. I told him none. He took them back and of course was angry with me. Well, I was angry with him. I would rather buy local and support farmers/growers here and there was nothing wrong with the cucumbers I picked, they just didn’t have the prickles on them. So, no cucumbers for the next couple of days. I can’t say I’m upset about that!

We paid and drove back to the house in silence. F did his usual unhelpful thing of taking things out of the shopping bag and putting them on the table. I unpacked most of the stuff and then told him that the rest of the stuff was his and he could do what he wanted with it. 

I forgot to ask him to make rice earlier and he didn’t do it. We’ll either have to do without (fine with ME) or he’ll have to eat the bachelor pack stuff. 

Upstairs we didn’t talk. He went to take a shower, I watched Law & Order. I’m still meh about the show. I like the actors, but I don’t get excited about the show. Maybe I should use Tuesday as a watching streaming night too. 

After my show I went downstairs and asked F about the bottle of water that he’d carried upstairs for me earlier. He’d hidden it in plain sight, I thanked him for bringing it up but I don’t know why he can’t just put it where it belongs!

Anyway, that’s about it for today. I’m not sure what I’ll get up to tomorrow. I have to finish my letter to my friend and maybe, just maybe I’ll write a Postcrossing postcard or two. Come back later if you like and find out what happens. Until tomorrow….

August 31, 2026

Monday - Hot and Sunny, cloudy later

Today was a good day, even though not everything went as I planned!

I did my usual getting up and then went back to bed for a few minutes. Then, I got up and dressed around 10am.  I packed my backpack and then I went downstairs and left the house. I checked the time as I left the house and it was the bus time. Sure enough, as I got to the end of the road, I saw the bus coming towards me. I missed it. Darn! Well, the good thing is that it was actually a much earlier bus than I had to take, I just thought I’d spent time in the mall shopping or eating. Oh well. I came back into the house and went back upstairs. I spent about 40 or 50 minutes in my room and then tried again! This time, I caught the bus. I didn’t have to wait too long either. Hurray. 

I rode the bus to S-Mall and went in. I first checked out Pizza Hut Express but it looked like they didn’t have the lunch I liked anymore, so I went to the grocery store instead. I bought a few things at the store, including a drink for the movie. I paid and then went to the bakery. I picked up a couple of bread things and a drink, then paid and sat in their eating area. I enjoyed my lunch, got to use decent wifi and that was nice. 

I walked back to the bus station and caught my bus back to the cinema. Yay. It was waiting at the gate and I wasn’t sure at first if it was the right one, but of course it was. 

I got off at my bus stop and walked over to the cinema. I bought my ticket and filled up my stamp card. Yay. I get a free film next time. I waited a few minutes later and I went in to see Eleanor the Great. It was a movie starring June Squibb about woman who accidentally goes to a meeting of Holocaust survivors and tells them a story about her experiences. However, she was American and didn’t have any personal Holocaust experiences. The film is Scarlett Johansson’s first directing attempt. I liked it quite a lot. 

After the film I left the cinema and sat in the hall for a few minutes then walked back to the bus stop. I caught the bus back to my area a couple of minutes later and then got off. I walked back to the house. 

I went upstairs and relaxed and had some tea. I watched the news and then a little after 5, F called. I changed into my cooking clothes and then went downstairs and got busy.

Today I made ginger pork, cucumber pickles, steamed spicy cabbage, and a bean bowl that I bought ages ago for myself. We had rice too and F had bought us some dessert. Dinner was good.

I cleared the table and started washing the dishes. I listened to one of my movie podcasts and then when I finished the dishes I prepared the plastic garbage to go out. I put it in the genkan for later.

I told F that I was finished and went upstairs. I watched a bit of YouTube and then went downstairs again to take a shower.

After my shower, I went back upstairs. I decided to watch an episode of Sugar. It was good, but a little dark. 

F went to bed before midnight, and fell asleep. However, he was moving his feet and hitting his bag of cans every five seconds. It was driving me nuts and I’m across the room with headphones on! I went over to him and moved the bag! He woke up, but did say thank you. I don’t know how the noise didn’t bother him. 

And that’s about it. Tomorrow I have an exciting day planned of laundry and letter writing! Let’s hope that I get time to do everything I want to. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow…. 

August 30, 2026

 Sunday - Rainy and cool, clearing at night

I woke up a bit late for me this morning. I got up, went downstairs and then spent a few minutes on my computer before going back to bed. I was looking at stuff on my phone when F came back upstairs. He got back into bed and we snuggled for a while before napping.

It was the afternoon when we got up and I got dressed. We talked about lunch and he suggested going to a soba restaurant with a pickled veggie buffet. I’ve been a couple of times and it is okay. Not my favourite, but an okay place. We ran out to the car and drove off. We passed the place that F wanted to go to yesterday but it was closed today too. We finally got to the soba restaurant and went in. We got a seat right away and ordered soon afterwards. I had hot soba with mountain vegetables and F had hot soba with tempura vegetables. He thought mine looked better, but I thought mine was okay. Honestly, it wasn’t the best soba I’ve ever had. 

After our lunch, we drove back to Tsuruoka and went to Gyumu Supa. I needed a few staples for myself and the pantry. We got some potato salad, some cereal for me, and some baby cheeses. F got some ramen packages for himself. We checked out and came back to the house. 

I put the food away and then went upstairs for some quiet time. F came up for a while and later on made dinner for his mother. I asked him to start thinking about making a dinner that has enough leftovers for his mother’s lunch the next day. I am buying her Monday’s lunch right now and I think it is a waste of money. She doesn’t always eat things and maybe she’ll eat something if she knows her darling son made it for her!

When F came back to the room, it was our turn. I suggested going to Gusto and then doing our grocery shopping. We went out just after 7pm. We went to the Gusto near MaxValu. It wasn’t too busy so we missed the supper rush. Yay.

F decided he wasn’t hungry as his stomach didn’t feel too good, so he just had drink bar and ice cream…that’ll fix it. I had their smash burger and fries which was very nice. I had drink bar too. I enjoyed my burger a lot, I wish I’d ordered something else too though. I was a bit hungry afterwards. 

We paid and left. I used some of my points to make the bill a little lower, no big deal.

We drove over to Mina and went in. F came in with me but I tried to get most of my shopping done before he caught up with me. He used their washroom first! I did quite well. I’m going to be making ginger pork tomorrow and chicken drumsticks on Tuesday, probably!

We paid and then came back to the house. I asked F to make rice for tomorrow and he did. I went upstairs after putting things away, I went downstairs again when I remembered I hadn’t brought up some water for my water pot. I watched the last hour and a bit of the latest Wuthering Heights. It wasn’t good. I missed the beginning, I have to say, but Catherine wearing jewels everyday and shiny fabrics that I doubt were available in those times? Not buying it. Now, as I found out last night, Jacob Elordi is hot and I really like Margot Robbie, but the film didn’t do much for me. I really should watch the first part I think, but I’m not sure if I will or not!

When the movie finished, I watched last night’s episode of FBI. It was good…but it was also the last episode of the season, so there won’t be more for a while. Oh well. 

And that’s about it for today. Tomorrow I might go out in the morning. There’s a movie at Machi-ne Kinema that I’d like to see and if the weather is okay it would be good to get out of the house. 

It was so cold tonight that I shut the window because I’m afraid we’re going to be too cold otherwise. We don’t have blankets on our bed right now. F of course went to bed in his winter weight pyjamas so he’ll be fine, but I might not be. I’ll have to find a t-shirt or something to wear to stay warm. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….