June 20, 2026

Saturday - Hot and sunny, muggy

I went to bed very late this morning. Honestly, after F’s sleep-kicking thing I was a bit weirded out about going to bed beside him. It was fine of course. He got it out of his system. 

F woke me up this morning trying to get some paper from my side of the room. My alarm went off two minutes later so he could have waited in my opinion. However, I went downstairs and his sister was there. I guess that she took her mother to the Day Service thing today. 

I went back to bed and snoozed a bit longer. F came in for a cuddle and to talk about “lunch”. I hadn’t had breakfast yet so I was a bit sad. I got up around 11 and went downstairs and took a shower. I really prefer daytime showers, but I never get to have them except when K is away. 

I suggested a couple of places for lunch and then F suggested another one, a fish restaurant near S-Mall. I wasn’t too excited about it, but I didn’t hate it either. However, when we finally got there, they tried to give us a seat on the tatami floor. Neither of us wanted that, so we were able to sit at the counter. 

We both had the same thing today, the filet katsu set meal. Now, I liked it a lot, F wasn’t too impressed. He thought the coating came off too easily. I dunno, he is so picky!

After lunch, we went over to Musashi and bought more masks, we also got a walnut cracker. F bought walnuts a few week ago but we couldn’t find our cracker. A new one was over ¥2000. Yikes. We ended up in the pet section too as F wanted to get some food for his fishes. I don’t like the pet section as they sell dogs, cats, rabbits and other little animals there. 

We paid and left. We decided to go for a drink and then I suggested an old-style coffee shop where we could get some kaki-gori. F was up for that, so off we went. We were able to park the car and went in. It was surprisingly busy today. I had the coffee-milk kakigori and F had the red bean and milk kakigori. Mine was great, his was too sweet. Sigh. He ordered it….

Our Kakigori...mine is Coffee and condensed milk, F's is Adzuki and condensed milk. 

We made a quick run to the grocery store for food for K and then we came back to the house. I went upstairs and turned on the AC as it was 30 degrees in our room. Ack.

After a couple of hours, F had made dinner for K and he wanted to know what we should do for dinner. I gave him a few ideas, but we ended up going to the newish Taiwan restaurant that I like (and F doesn’t.) We got a table (after the waitress asked a couple of guys to move to a table on the tatami for us). Of course, F wanted to order ramen, but I reminded him that he doesn’t like this restaurant’s ramen and he listened for a change. We both had the same meal, yurinchi chicken set meal(twice in one day! Weird.) F actually admitted that the food was good, so yay for me.

After dinner, I just didn’t want to go back to the house yet. We didn’t really have a plan to do anything so we went driving. F wanted to see the view of Tsuruoka from the hills outside the city. We went driving out in the boonies…ended up going past the ski hill. It was a bit scary but he finally decided to turn around. On the way back to Tsuruoka we did see the lights of the city. F wanted to get out of the car, but I refused. There are still bears out there and I don’t want to be dinner!

We came back to the house and came in. We went upstairs and F went to bed almost immediately. I watched some YouTube and then watched tonight’s FBI. It was a good one. I watched the end of a movie on the movie channel and then the start of another one, but decided not to watch it. I need to get to bed sometime tonight!

Since midnight I’ve been watching YouTube and working on end of day things. I’m not really sure what we’re going to get up to. We’ll have to do the usual grocery shopping and we might go and see if there are fireflies, but we might not!

Come back later if you like and find out. Until tomorrow…. 

June 19, 2026

Friday - Sweltering hot and sunny

I got up before my alarm this morning, but it was fine. F was long gone, which I’m glad for him about!

I went downstairs and then came back up to the room. I sorted out my laundry and then went back to bed. I ended up oversleeping, but it wasn’t a big deal really! I got up finally, dressed and went downstairs with my laundry.

I started my first load and then grabbed my breakfast and took it upstairs to the room. I ate and a bit later brought up my laundry to hang up. I put away some clean laundry and just generally had a quiet afternoon. I had to turn on the AC early today as it was 30 degrees before 2 pm. It was so hot up here today. 

Weird thing just happened. F went to bed early tonight, he had to start work at 6 am after all. Well, I’m sitting across the room at my computer and all of a sudden he starts kicking in bed. He kicked my leg pillows halfway across the bed and then started trying to hit the headboard. He was still asleep, having a dream that he had to fight someone with a gun. I had to wake him up to get him to stop! (He used to be a police officer…not sure if he was dreaming about those days or something else!)

Back to the update…I went downstairs before 3 to get my lunch and then I decided I’d watch an episode of Elsbeth while I ate. It was okay…one of the characters from The Good Wife/The Good Fight was on and that was nice. 

I watched the news and after a while I went downstairs, close to 6 pm to go and start dinner. Tonight we had my usual pasta, tonight with a soy sauce/seaweed sauce, sliced duck breast, salad and some mini-tomatoes for K and F. I had asked F to bring dessert tonight, so he brought some chocolate ice cream, so we each had one. That was a nice treat. 

I did the dishes after dinner and put everything away. I was listening to a couple of podcasts and I enjoyed them. When I finished, I came upstairs and watched a bit of YouTube. That was fun.

I decided that I’d watch a movie that I recorded off NHK a few weeks ago. It’s one I’ve never seen, even though it is old by now. The movie? Somewhere in Time with Christopher Reeve and Jane Seymour. It was good. It wasn’t the best film ever, but it was lovely to see Christopher Reeve again in a regular acting role, not a superhero. Anyway, I’m glad that I have finally seen the film.

And that was it. Since midnight I’ve been doing my end of day things and blogging. I’m not sure what F and I will get up to tomorrow. I’m hoping that we will have a good time together. Let’s hope that F doesn’t have anymore nightmares tonight!

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

June 18, 2026

Thursday - Hot and muggy, rainy at night

I woke up when my alarm went off this morning. I might have heard F leave, but I’m not sure. I did my usual trip downstairs and then came back to the room. I did my usual thing of going back to snooze with some videos. I fell asleep and then woke up later when my alarm went off. 

I got up, dressed and went downstairs for my breakfast. I brought it upstairs and then relaxed with some YouTube. I had a very quiet afternoon. I just relaxed for a bit. 

I grabbed my lunch a bit late and then I didn’t have time to watch anything. Instead, I asked Alexa to play music popular in Canada right now, but I’m not sure that it was. There was a lot of Taylor Swift…I like her, but she’s not Canadian!

I watched the news and it was all about the same person as usual, so I ignored a lot of it. F called me just after 5:20 today and said he was on his way back to the house. I went downstairs a few minutes later and got stuck in to dinner prep. Tonight I made a chicken and hijiki main dish, a cabbage salad type thing, and a salad. We also had some overnight pickles that I made yesterday. Dinner was really nice I thought. K and F got to finish the cheesecake that the neighbour brought over. 

I did the dishes and the kitchen was so hot and humid that I ended up horribly sweaty and uncomfortable. I finally finished and told F I was going upstairs to change and that we could leave in a few minutes. 

We drove over to the grocery store and he helped me take in the meat trays and milk and juice cartons. I did the rest of the shopping. I think I did okay. I paid and then went out to the car.

We drove to the nearby drugstore and I picked up a few more things. Some of the food that they sell is cheaper than the grocery store. I’m not sure why, but it is!  We also picked up some ice cream for ourselves and a few other things.

We came back to the house and I put away the groceries. F came upstairs and I followed a few minutes later. 

I watched an episode of The Rookie and it was okay. It was a bridging episode in a way. It set up a few storylines for the future. 

And that’s about it. I’ve been watching YouTube again. I’ve found a British channel that I’m catching up on, it’s a woman who reviews 5 star hotels and also restaurants. She’s funny and I like the way she looks at things too. 

I feel a bit bad for F tonight. He has an early start tomorrow morning, he has to get up at 5 am, poor thing. I hope he doesn’t wake up when I go to bed. 

Anyway, that’s it for me for today. Tomorrow I’ll be doing some laundry and hopefully keeping cool. Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

June 17, 2026

Wednesday - Hot and muggy

I woke up this morning when my alarm went off. I don’t think I heard F leave at all. I made a quick trip downstairs and then went back to bed. I played on my phone for a bit and then snoozed a bit longer.

I dragged myself out of bed later on, dressed and went down to get breakfast. I came back upstairs to eat and I spent a hot and sweaty time in front of my computer. It got really hot today, it hit 30 degrees today in the room and it was horrible. I managed not to use the AC until I brought my lunch upstairs. 

I went downstairs to get lunch a bit before 3 pm. F’s sister was there. She’d taken K to the doctor today and also said that the neighbour gave us a blueberry cheesecake. I took my lunch and went back upstairs to eat. Today I watched an episode of Lie To Me over lunch. I had a hard time deciding what to watch. 

I didn’t hear from F tonight so I went downstairs and did the dishes and then got stuck into the rest of dinner. Tonight we had premade burgers and French Fries, salad and cucumber pickles. K and F had mini-tomatoes as well and also the cheesecake from the neighbour. I’m not a fan of cheesecake, so I passed. 

I did the dishes after dinner and then I had to do up the burnable garbage. F did give me a hand with some of it, but it took him a while to get going!

I put the bag in the genkan for F to take out later and then I headed upstairs for a rest. I watched some YouTube and then a bit after 10 I went downstairs and took a shower. It was so hot today I really needed one. 

I came back up to the room and watched tonight’s episode of Copenhagen Test. I really like this show. It’s a made in Canada one that doesn’t have huge special effects, but it does have a good story. I’m enjoying it.

I turned off the TV and watched a bunch of YouTube instead. I also started doing my usual things to end off the night.

I don’t really have any plans for tomorrow. I’m a bit sad about that. I was hoping I could go to a movie or something to get out of the heat, but there’s nothing on!

Come back later if you like and hear what I do get up to on Thursday. Until tomorrow….

June 16, 2026

Tuesday - Hot and Sunny

Last night, F woke up before I went to bed and I don’t think he went back to sleep at all. He lies in bed and plays with his phone, of course he’s not going to fall asleep. When I go to bed, I read on my phone for about 5 minutes and then I go to sleep. I have a nice little routine, it’s just much later than F’s bedtime!

When I woke up in the morning, F was gone. My alarm was on so I turned it off and then got up. I went downstairs and then came back to the room. I sorted my laundry and checked my email. I went back to bed and did my sleep and watch videos on my phone thing. 

I dragged myself out of bed later and brought my laundry downstairs after I got dressed. I started one load and then grabbed my breakfast. K was up, but in the living room. I nodded at her!

I came back upstairs to eat and get things ready to hang up my laundry. I did two loads today, no big deal. 

I decided to write a couple of postcards for Postcrossing today. Mine are off to Poland and Finland so that’s good. I think Finland should be fast, I hope Poland will be too. 

I went downstairs around 3pm to get my lunch. I brought it back to the room to eat. I watched an episode of Departure and enjoyed it. 

F was late in calling me today, so I was getting ready to go downstairs when he did call. I went downstairs and started with my dishes and then got really busy. 

Tonight I made air-fried chicken drumsticks with salad, potato salad, cucumber pickle and some broccoli. It was very nice, even if I say so myself. F had made rice too so dinner went well.

I did the dishes afterwards and listened to my podcasts as well. I mostly enjoyed them. The podcasts I mean, not the dishes!

I changed my clothes after finishing in the kitchen. F and I went off to the grocery store and I picked up some food for the next couple of days. F got some adult beverage and we got stuff for lunches as well. 

We came back to the house and I put away the groceries. I probably didn’t buy enough, but I think we’ll be okay. 

I came upstairs to the room, watched a little YouTube and then watched Law & Order at 11pm. 

F is sleeping now and I’ll be heading off to bed soon. I hope I don’t wake him up tonight. He has a roadtrip at work tomorrow.

Come back later if you want and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

June 15, 2026

Monday - Hot and a bit muggy

I woke up around 7:00 when F was getting ready to leave, but I managed to go back to sleep. I woke up late when my alarm went off. I went downstairs and then came back to the room and went back to bed after a bit. I watched videos and then snoozed until I finally dragged myself out of bed.

I got up, dressed and went downstairs to get my breakfast. I measured out my yogurt and then came back upstairs and added in my cereal. I ate and watched some YouTube. I had a bit of a relaxing morning and early afternoon.

I went downstairs to get my lunch around 3 pm and then I came back upstairs to eat. I turned on the AC as well as it was up to 29℃ and I was struggling. During my lunch I watched another episode of Breaking Bad. It’s kind of funny in a way, the big bad gangster at the moment is played by Raymond Cruz….he was one of my favourite detectives in Major Crimes. It’s a bit scary to see this other side of him. I’m enjoying the series at the moment but it is very intense. I can’t watch it if I’m having a bad day.

I finished up the letter I’ve been writing to my bestie and got the envelope ready to send. I gave it to F to mail on his way to work tomorrow…there’s a mailbox just outside his office so it’s not out of his way. 

F called me a couple of times today. The first time was to set a date and time next month for the Social Worker to come back with the people from the Day Service. The second time was to tell me that he was on his way back from work. 

I went downstairs around 6pm and started getting ready for dinner. I washed my dishes and put them away, realized that I hadn’t brought down fresh towels yet, so ran back upstairs to get some. 

I was a busy person in the kitchen tonight. I did a cucumber pickle, microwave steamed cabbage, salad, mini-tomatoes, and sautéd ginger pork. Dinner was really nice. F’s rice was okay, it was leftover rice and wasn’t great. 

I cleared the table and then did the dishes. I listened to my podcasts and then went back upstairs to relax. I took a shower after 10pm and then came back to the room and watched an episode of Evil before midnight. 

And that’s about it. I’ve been doing my end of day stuff and I’ll hopefully go to bed soon. I’m not sure what I’ll get up to tomorrow, maybe some laundry and whatever I can figure out. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

June 14, 2026

Sunday - Hot but a bit muggy

I woke up this morning quite early. F was still in bed, but not asleep. After I went downstairs, I came back to the room and went back to sleep. I woke up a couple of hours later. I dragged myself out of bed and went downstairs and grabbed my yogurt. I brought it back up to the room to add some cereal and then eat my breakfast. F had gotten up a couple of hours earlier and had fed his mother and done some household chores. 

I ate and then dressed. A little while later I went downstairs and we got ready for the social worker’s visit. She arrived on time today and things went well. Things went well but next time she wants to bring people from K’s Day Service and it has to be during the week, so F will have to take time off. Honestly, I do major eye rolls at this whole thing. They are basically going to try and put pressure on me to send K during the week but I am not going to do that. When F finishes work, he can do it if he wants, I don’t want. K won’t go for me, and I don’t care if she does or not!

After the visit, and after I got gifted with the clean up of glasses etc, F and I went out. He wanted to go to some noodle factory in Mikawa. It was closed when we checked it out yesterday…I told him it would be closed today too. I mean, it’s a family business. If they are closed on Saturday they are going to be closed on Sunday too, right? Of course I was right and they were closed. I didn’t gloat overly much.

We went to the mall in Mikawa to have a very late lunch. It was busy and F decided in about 2 seconds what he wanted at McDonald, I did not. He was up at the machine trying to order but I told him I wasn’t ready yet. He basically walked off and refused to order there. I ordered what I decided to have and then paid. I got my order and went looking for F. He’d gone for takoyaki which he said wasn’t that great. He’d also told me that there were people behind me in the line earlier that were complaining about me. I didn’t hear anyone and frankly I don’t care. When I got to the machine there was NO ONE behind me. 

We ate and then left the mall. We went to Don Qihote and did a little shopping. F got some stuff, I got some stuff and some cereal which is what I was looking for. Oh, and some sunscreen. The cereal was cheaper than the grocery store, so woot. 

We got drinks for the drive back to Tsuruoka, paid, and left the store. We went to the next store, Nitori. F’s been looking for cushions for the dining table chairs and we found some there. Honestly, I didn’t think we needed any as the chairs are padded, but summer is coming and the leather/leatherette does get sweaty. 

We  bought the cushions and some hangers for F, then headed back to the car. We drove back to Tsuruoka. 

F wanted to do our grocery shopping before going to the house, so we went to the grocery store and went in and did our shopping. I think I got enough stuff, but I can’t be sure. I got stuff for the next two days, fingers crossed. 

We went back to the house and I got to put the stuff away plus take some of the stuff upstairs. I relaxed for a bit with my computer. 

Around 6:30 or so, F wanted to know about feeding his mother. I was in favour of it! I don’t know why he asks me all the time. Feed your mother.

After he gave her the bento, it was our turn. We talked about a few ideas and then decided to go to Cocos. We drove over there and were seated right away. We got a good table for a change, not a booth. I had carbonara with a salad set and F had a Japanese meal of fish and chicken. He complained about it as usual so that was perfectly normal. I thought our meal was nice.

We left the restaurant and drove to a drugstore. I got to go in and do my shopping in private so that was good. I got personal things and some snacks. I came back to the car and then we came back to the house. 

F took a shower and I went upstairs and watched the finale of The Boys. It was good, but I’m glad it is over. I did tell a friend that she shouldn’t watch it though as I knew it was too violent and bloody for her. 

And, honestly that’s about it for the day. Tomorrow we’re back to our normal lives again. F has a medical check at work and I’ll be cooking dinner again. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….