October 25, 2026

Sunday - Rainy and cooler

I woke up around 10:30 this morning. I got up a bit later then came back to bed for a while. F got up and made his mother some breakfast, I got up a bit later and dressed. 

F and I talked about where to go for lunch. I was fine for a bit, but F wanted lunch soon. We talked about where to go and I suggested a couple of restaurants in Oyama. F picked the one he liked and we went there. We did have to wait a few minutes, but it was okay. 

We had omrice with chahan inside, and pork on the top with soup. It was really nice, but a bit too big for me! F and I both decided that next time, unless we’re really hungry, we’ll get the smaller version!

This was big!

After our meal we went to K’s Denki and after a lot of conversation decided on a new washing machine. It wasn’t the cheapest (which made me happy!) and it was a Japanese-made one (which made F happy). We’re going to get it delivered on Tuesday. F plans to take the day off so he can be around for them to install it and have the old one taken away. 

We next went to Daiso where I bought a new glass cup for my tea. It’s bigger than my older one, so I’m not sure that is a good thing. It is clear glass and I can use it with my cup warmer so that’s good. While we were looking at the cups, F found a medicine calendar for his mother. Lately, we have the sneaking suspicion that K isn’t taking her medicine properly. We’re hoping that this will help her. F spent some time tonight putting her medicine for the rest of the month in it. 

We came back to the house and relaxed for a bit. F made dinner for K around 6 and then when he finished wanted to leave for our dinner right away. 

I plumped for Gusto and that’s where we went. I’m happy about that because I was riced out and I don’t need to have rice for every meal like dear hubby does! He had chicken with a garlic-soy sauce sauce and rice, I had a burger and fries with the drink bar too. I enjoyed my meal, but F’s phone died during the meal and he wanted to leave before I did. Sigh.

We drove over to Mina and I went in to do the grocery shopping. Before I went in, I said to F that I wouldn’t be able to give extra money if we went over the amount that he gave me to do the shopping. He didn’t pay me back from the last two times I added money in. I’m not even buying junk food (like he does) or things we don’t really need. 

Anyway…We came back to the house and I put away the groceries and then went upstairs. F had a shower before coming upstairs. I decided I’d watch an episode of Carnival Row, which I did. I need to get this series finished as I’ve had it on the back burner for far too long. 

And that’s about it for my day. Tomorrow I’m going to try and do a load of laundry in the machine we have now. It’s a pain in the butt as I’ll have to be there the whole time, but I need some clean shirts!

Come back later if you like and hear all about my Monday. Until tomorrow….

October 24, 2026

Saturday - Cloudy and rainy and cool

I woke up fairly early this morning and went downstairs. Then, I came back to bed and went back to sleep for a while. I got up around 10:30. K was at her Day Service, F was at the doctor’s. I was alone. I decided to get up and take a shower. 

I took my towel downstairs, turned up the water heater and got in the shower. Now, for some reason, I had a premonition that I shouldn’t get soapy until I checked the water temperature. I’m happy I didn’t. The water heater ran out of kerosene about 2 minutes after I got into the water. I heard it sputter and die through the window, so I got out of the shower and towelled off. 

I went back upstairs and got dressed. F came back in a few minutes and I told him about my failed shower attempt! We decided to go out for lunch. I suggested the restaurant in Fujishima, so F called to make a reservation and then we set off. 

We had a lovely lunch there. I had the ginger pork set meal and F had the fish set meal. We left the restaurant with happy tummies and set off back to Tsuruoka. 

We went first to K’s Denki and looked at washing machines. Our washing machine isn’t filling. There’s probably a filter thing going on, but we can’t get spare parts for it. F had tried ordering some on line, but they don’t have it. The company stopped making washing machines as well, so there’s a finite supply of parts. F didn’t really like the prices at that shop, so we headed off to the other big electronic shop, Yamada Denki. 

They had other machines from other companies so we had a look at them. I’m not sure. I asked my women’s group to find out if anyone had any recommendations. I think we should try and get a good one and spend a little more money on it, but it’s difficult to do at the moment. 

We were running out of time, so started back towards the house. F stopped at one place for kerosene and then wanted to get gas for the car, but they were busy. We left that gas station and I thought we were going straight back to the house, but F took us to another gas station to fill up the car. 

We came back to the house just before K came back. I went upstairs to check out my computer and other things and a little later K arrived. 

F came upstairs around 6pm and said that his mother wanted to have her dinner right away. He went off and made her something. He didn’t appear again until after 8pm!

We talked about our dinner and decided that we’d go to Coco Ichibanya. That was his idea and I was fine with it! 

We drove over there and went in. We got a table right away. I ordered the handmade chicken cutlet and curry with a half order of vegetables and a lassi. F ordered the seafood curry with a lassi too. Our meals were good! 

After we ate, we went to a grocery store. I had to hurry F up a bit from the restaurant because the grocery store closed at 10 pm and it was 9:20. We did make it!

At the store, we bought a few things for K and F’s breakfast and maybe lunch tomorrow. I got coffee creamers and F got some food!

We came back to the house. I headed upstairs and F stayed down for a while. I looked at the time and realized I had time to take a shower and I really needed one! 

I went downstairs with my towel again and took a proper shower with actual hot water. Yay!

I came back upstairs and watched The Hunting Party. I like the show, but it seems to be a Criminal Minds wannabe, but it’s a little too light for that. 

Since midnight I’ve been watching YouTube and getting my end of day things done. I’ll be going to bed soon as it is getting late. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

October 23, 2026

Friday - Sunny and warmish

I woke up when my alarm went off this morning. I didn’t quite know where I was for a minute! I got up and went downstairs, then came back upstairs. I sorted out some of my laundry and then went back to bed! I watched a video or two and then fell back asleep and woke up a lot later!

I got up, dressed and then went downstairs with one load of laundry. Because our washing machine is having problems, I had to stay with the machine until my load was finished. That meant that my load took about an hour to do and I had to wait on my breakfast until I was done.

When the laundry was actually done, I took it upstairs and hung it up. I had brought my yogurt up with me too, so I had breakfast finally. 

I had a quiet little afternoon. I watched a few Reels on FB and then went downstairs again to get my lunch. I had a light lunch as my breakfast was very recent! While I ate, I watched Wednesday’s episode of Grey’s Anatomy. It was quite a good one actually.

I watched the end of the news afterwards and then F called a bit after 5:30. I changed and went downstairs to the kitchen to start on dinner. I’m glad that I had a chance to clean up part of the kitchen last night. There were a lot of things I had to fix tonight. 

I did my usual pasta tonight, so we had spaghetti with cheese cream sauce, sliced duck breast, salad and some pickled beets. It was simple but nice. 

After dinner, I did the dishes and finished up last week’s movie podcast. Yay. I let F know when I was done and then went upstairs.

I watched some YouTube and then decided I really should watch a movie since I’m putting off my shower until tomorrow. I looked at the DVR listing and decided to watch The Bride! It was…okay. I don’t really recommend it because it didn’t hold my attention and got quite weird in places. The cast was really good, and I like supporting women directors, but….

F didn’t come upstairs until the movie had finished. Then, he didn’t even talk to me!  I said hello or how are you to him 3 times and he didn’t respond. He said he didn’t hear me. Sigh. He was okay.

Anyway, that’s about it for my day. I strongly suggested that F go to the doctor tomorrow. He still has a bad cough from last weekend. I think it is time he gets some proper medicine for it. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

October 22, 2026

Thursday - Cold and cloudy in Yamagata, Cold in Tsuruoka

Well, I’m back at the house. Why is it that when I came back, I sort of wished that I didn’t come back?

Okay, well, I’m hoping to do this quickly as I’m really tired again and need some sleep. I did get to bed a little earlier last night, so getting up this morning wasn’t as painful as it could be. I went downstairs for breakfast and then came back to the room. I finished packing, got almost everything put away and then had a quick little nap. It was a good idea. 

I left the hotel around 11:00am. That was my check out time. I went over to the station area but it was cold. The rest of the trip I’d been able to just wear my fleecy vest, but today it was windy and I realized that I would need my jacket out of my suitcase. I found a quiet corner and opened my suitcase and took my coat out. Luckily, my coat was easy to get to. I relocked my case and took my suitcase and backpack over to an electronic locker and locked up my stuff. 

Then, I caught a bus to the area of Yamagata that I hadn’t been able to go to yet. I got off the bus and walked back to the Lupicia store and went in. And…I heard angels singing (well, not really) and there was my favourite Christmas tea, finally on sale! Today was the first day!  I bought some Decaf Carol and also picked up one pack of decaf tea of another type. 

I left the store after paying and then walked back to the bus stop and found my bus stop. When the bus came I rode it back to the station. I spent a bit of time wandering around the station building. I had another Rooibos Royal Milk Tea at Tully’s and finished reading my book on my phone. It was really good, but didn’t end quite how I hoped. It was still good though.

I decided that I’d go and have lunch so I went back to Capricchosa for lunch. Today I had their lunch set, so I had steamed chicken and veggies pepperoncino. It was good. I added on the salad and also had drink bar. 

After I finished my meal, it was nearly time to go for my bus. I wasted a little time and then went to get out my suitcase, and my backpack. I bought a small bottle of water and then joined the line to get on the bus. 

When the bus came, I told the driver I had a suitcase and he said something. Turns out someone else had a case too and the driver had told me to put it in the cargo area for myself. Hmm. The other person helped me with my case and I thanked him and “Sumimasen”ed him and got on the bus. I found a seat and got out my iPod. 

I listened to Gowan most of the trip back and then a few songs by Falco. I haven’t listened to albums for a while so it was nice. F did try to phone me when I was on the bus, but I didn’t take his call. I texted him that I was still on the bus. 

Back in Tsuruoka I told the driver I had a suitcase and he basically told me to get it out myself. Okay then. I did, but felt a bit odd about it. Many years ago I got told off very strongly by a bus driver for opening the hold under the bus and putting a suitcase in it. He ranted for a while at me. 

I went to the washroom and got a text from F. I told him I was in the ‘loo, then when I came out, saw him coming in to use the men’s room too. We went to have a drink at Doutor which I paid for as F left his wallet in the car.

Then, F wanted to buy food for dinner but not bentos because he made rice at home. Sigh. We ended up at a grocery store and bought a few side dishes. I told him it wasn’t enough food but he thought it was. 

We drove back to the house and then we went in. I got to carry all of my stuff myself. Oh well.  We put some of the other groceries away and then I put out the food we bought. F and K had rice and we shared the other food. I was right, it wasn’t enough for me, but the others seemed okay. 

I brought some of my stuff upstairs when I came up to replace the dish towel. Yes, of course I got to do the dishes tonight. And clean the stove. Oh, and I also made F turn on the downstairs heater. It was about 16 degrees in the room…that was cold. 

After I finished the dishes I came back upstairs with my suitcase. Unfortunately, when I tried to set up my computer, I yanked on a cord on my desk…turns out it was to my cup heater and my cup fell off it and smashed on the floor. The cup’s handle broke. Darn! I really liked my clear glass cup. 

So, I set up my computer again and I set up my CPAP so it is ready to go when I go to bed. At 11pm I watched DOC. It was okay. I’m not sure how the story will progress. It was okay though.

Well, I’m back. I’m really tired and I want to get to bed soon. Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

October 21, 2026

Wednesday - Cloudy but warm, some rain

Today was a good, but busy day. It didn’t get off to a great start though. I woke up when my alarm went off and I got up and went downstairs for breakfast. They had onion soup on offer which I promptly spilled all over the table. Sigh.

When I went back to the room, I took a little nap then got up. Unfortunately, I was quite under the weather today and my stomach was not happy with me. I decided I’d wait a while and see how I felt in a bit. 

I left the room after 12 and went over to the bus stop. I bought my tickets and a few minutes later the bus came. My ride to Sendai was nice and I got off at the station stop.

Tandoori Chicken salad...so nice!

I did a bit of shopping all over the downtown area and managed to get most of what I wanted. I had a lovely tandoori salad for lunch and got my smoked paprika at a store in the station. I found some nice Christmas cards in a store, I even bought a couple of birthday cards. All I can find in Tsuruoka are kids ones. I checked out the bookstore and they have shrunk their collection of books. I was shocked if I’m honest. It was terrible. 

I checked the bus line around 6pm but it was really long and I decided I’d take a bus later. I went over to Parco 2 and checked out their food floor. About half of their restaurants were closed, including the nice Hawaiian burger place I was hoping to go. I did see an ad for another restaurant that had burgers, so I tried it. I had a smokey bacon burger with fries. It was very good. I had a cup of decaf with that, which was also nice.

After my meal, I visited the washroom and then went back to the bus stop. There wasn’t much of a line when I got there, but after a while it got bigger. I got on the bus and was lucky enough not to have to share a seat.  I didn’t snooze too much on the way back. 

I got off across from my hotel and then I walked back to my hotel. I came in and up to my room. I watched the news in English on NHK. There’s a lot of flooding in Yurihonjo, which is a city a bit north of us. It’s in Akita Prefecture. F said that it didn’t rain that much where we live. Oh, yes, F and I talked again tonight. 

I’m off to bed soon. I’m really tired and a little extra sleep would be good for me. If I’m this tired tomorrow night, I won’t be posting, I need to sleep! 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow…?

October 20, 2026

 Tuesday - Cooler and a little rainy

I went to bed rather late last night and then didn’t want to get up this morning. However, I did. I got up and went downstairs and had breakfast. It was fine without being fabulous. I think I went down a bit late and there wasn’t a lot of food left, but it was okay. 

I came back up to the room and honestly, went back to bed! I snoozed for around an hour and then got up, dressed, and left the hotel. I went over to the station and walked through the building. I went to the Kajo building and waited for the person I was meeting to finish her work. She texted me and I went outside. Now, I had told her that I was wearing a green coat, but I had forgotten to ask her what she was driving! However, we found each other!

We ended up going for lunch to an Indian restaurant. We learned that we have mutual friends and I even used to work for a while for the same company as she does! Lunch was good and conversation was non-stop. We talked so much!

Finally we had to leave the restaurant and she invited me to a second place. We went to a suburb of Yamagata city and spent more time together talking and getting to know each other. After a while we left, made a pit stop at a convenience store, and then she drove me back to my hotel. That was lovely, and unexpected!

I came back into my hotel and relaxed for a while. Around 8pm I went out again and went to the izakaya around the corner, the chicken one that I’ve gone to the last two years as well. I had some yummy food there, paid, and went over the road to a convenience store over there. I came back to the hotel and my room, then texted my husband.

F called me and we chatted for a while. Things are okay at the house but K is a bit worrying at the moment. F also wasn’t able to get a replacement part for the washing machine so he has to try again somewhere else. Sigh. He’s still sounding quite sick, the poor thing. 

Since my call, I’ve basically been watching some YouTube and relaxing. I finally fired up the water pot and have been drinking some hot rooibos tea. Yum. I’ve missed it. I’ve drunk a lot of iced rooibos, but hot is nice too. 

I’m going to try and go to bed a little bit earlier tonight as I want to get up for breakfast tomorrow and then go out so I can catch a bus to Sendai. Today was a nice, laid-back kind of day. It was great meeting someone too, and getting to know her. Yay. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….

October 19, 2026

Monday - Cloudy and rainy, warmish

I woke up before my alarm this morning and made the executive decision not to go for breakfast! I was really tired and thought I’d rather just get out of the room earlier and go over to the mall. 

I stayed in bed until a little before 10 and then dragged myself up. I didn’t take a shower as I had planned, but then I got up and got dressed. 

I checked my time for the train and I could catch one around 11:30 if I hustled. I did! I checked out and then walked over to the station. I caught the train easily and rode it to Minami-Tendo. I got off the train with a lot of other people and walked over to the mall. In the mall I did a lot of exploring and happily a bit of shopping. I got a bit of Christmas shopping done and I even bought a few Christmas ornaments! I bought myself a new T-Shirt and a very nice blouse. They were both on sale so yay! Oh, and I bought socks!

When I first arrived at the mall I had lunch at Pepper Steak. It wasn’t great. The steak I had was very tough and the “salad” I ordered turned out to be potato salad covered in deep fried onions and corn. It wasn’t good either!

I took a break in the afternoon and went to Mr Donut for a drink and a muffin, then went to the cinema and watched Digger, the Tom Cruise film. I hadn’t planned to see it but my favourite critic, Mark Kermode said that everyone should see it to make up their own mind about it. I’m on the not really a fan side. I get what they were planning to do but I’m not sure that they make it. It was a very odd film.

After the film I went back to the food court and ordered a Footlong sandwich from Subway and put it in my backpack. Then, I left the mall and walked to the train station. I was a little early, but no worries. I had a seat in the waiting room and then got on the train when it arrived. 

At Yamagata Station I got off the train and walked back towards the hotel. I made a quick stop at the convenience store next to the hotel, then came back to my hotel room. 

I’ve had a quiet evening. I ate my dinner, watched the Japanese news in English, watched some YouTube, called my husband and chatted for a bit and then took a shower. I never seem to get organized enough in the morning to do it, so I decided to do it tonight. 

I’ll go to bed fairly soon and hopefully I’ll be able to get up for breakfast tomorrow! I do have plans to meet up with another foreign wife in the early afternoon, so after that, we’ll see how things go. I was planning tomorrow to be an easier day since I had such a busy day today. 

Come back later if you like and hear all about my day. Until tomorrow….