Monday - Rainy and cool
Not a great day.
We slept in a bit today, but I did get up much earlier than yesterday! Yay for that. I showered while F went to the post office to pick up a package that had come during our holiday.
When he came back, he felt the need to eat some cup ramen, and then when we went out for lunch he felt the need to eat more ramen. Sigh. We went to the restaurant in the local theatre, so I had Japanese food, special tonkatsu with mushrooms in it. I surprised myself by having refills on rice, soup and cabbage. I usually don’t, but I was hungry.
We went to see Letters to Juliet, which was a sweet little film. It didn’t hold any big surprises, but I really enjoyed it.
After the movie, F took me home and then went to see if he could get a massage. He couldn’t.
In the evening we went to the camera shop and had pictures printed of our trip. I wanted to be able to show them to my students. After that, we sent off a package to a person in Tokyo. I was a bit apprehensive because the person in the store didn’t really seem to know what she was doing. Also, she didn’t put the sticker on the package while we were there. I was afraid it will get mixed up with someone else’s parcel.
Coming back from the convenience store, F started to turn off the main road as if to go home. I asked him if he wanted to have dinner. When he asked me where I wanted to go and I of course replied that I didn’t know, he got quite angry with me and drove off the road into a store’s parking lot and proceeded to shout at me. I honestly wasn’t sure why. We go through this rigamarole almost every day. I suggest going somewhere for dinner, he never suggests anywhere, but never likes my suggestions. All he ever wants to eat is ramen and when I pointed out that he never suggests anywhere did say ramen. I told him to forget it and suggested Jiro, one of the local places we go sometimes.
The meal was fine and all, but I got the silent treatment throughout the meal. I also got the cellphone treatment. I would like to take his cell phone and put it somewhere nasty on him. I get ignored during too many meals these days.
After dinner we went to a grocery store where I got food for tomorrow’s lunch and dinner. I hadn’t originally planned to cook for dinner, but I couldn’t stand the thought of another fight over where we should eat. This is really getting to me.
Came home and after a bit I decided to talk to him instead of giving him the silent treatment. It wasn’t a great success, but not terrible either. I started a new doily tonight. Supposedly a late present for F’s niece that got married this year, but I’m not in any rush to get it done, even though the deadline should be Friday. There’s some party I said I’d go to, but I’ve completely changed my mind and don’t want to go anymore. If I can’t stand being around my husband at the moment, being around his family makes me want to throw up. This group of people have not exactly been supportive or friendly towards me over the last few years. (Unlike my family, who have embraced F and really made him part of the family.)
Anyway, that’s about it for the night. I watched Jackal for the umpteenth time. I love the movie, but hate the ending. I did a bit of crochet during the last hour of the movie. I have to go. I do have to work tomorrow afternoon. Night.
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