Sunny, but cooler.
A pretty horrible day. I slept in really late as I didn't go to bed until very early this morning. When I got up, F was in a foul mood to boot. I took a shower and then came back to discover he was watching crap fighting on TV. Since I thought he wanted to go out for lunch right away I was quite surprised and shared my disdain for his TV choice.
We had lunch in Grado, then came back to the apartment. He shut himself in the bedroom and even when I asked him to come out to watch a movie, didn't. Funny, I thought he wanted to watch the movie too, so I decided not to watch it when he wasn't there. He came out of the bedroom and was surprised that I wasn't watching it.
He left for a while, close to two hours. Didn't tell me where he was going either. When he came back he went back into the bedroom. I'd had enough so I demanded to know where he went. He told me later he'd gone to watch TV in his car. What a jerk. Later he went out again and came back with food--for himself. He put the headphones on (thankfully) and watched more fighting crap.
I grabbed my book and went out for dinner. It was okay, but I can't help feeling this is all rather stupid. After all, it's not like he even had any plans for today. I've told him time and time again that if he makes plans I will get up. He never does. He doesn't do plans. He just likes to whinge about me ruining his weekends.
I came home and we basically ignored each other until he went to bed.
I had a day. I read a lot of my Stephanie Plum, did some crochet, listened to lots of CBC podcasts and had a huge fight with my husband. That wasn't a good thing. However, it feels like it's the norm these days.
Night.
2 comments:
Sorry to hear about your day Helen, I hate when that happens and I know the feeling because I've had it happen to me before. I remember one time when Yasu got angry at me (early on in our marriage) and just took off and he didn't take his mobile, and he was gone all day and all night. It was horrible, i was so worried.
Thankfully he doesn't do that any more but he still does the silent treatment thing occasionally which i hate.
Do you think his crankiness is more to do with his pain? I wish he would get help or something it really is not fair on you at all.
*hugs*
I think a lot of it is because of his pain. Thing is, he's on medicine that doesn't really help... they can't/won't give him anything stronger. The operation hasn't seemed to help as much as we hoped either. Sigh.
Thanks for the support!
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