September 4, 2022

Sunday - Sunny and hot


I woke up before my alarm went off. I went downstairs.  When I was down there, F came and talked to me and was angry about not booking the hotel. He yelled at me a few times. I wasn’t happy. I tried to go back to bed, but F followed me soon after and got a bit nasty.


He ended up booking a room in the hotel for two nights. I’m a little miffed as I have a point card (yes, this again) for the hotel. I stay in their sister hotel in Haneda whenever I come back to Canada so I need all the points that I can get…it’s quite expensive. Sigh. Whatever. Our anniversary and we’ll have a twin room with no meals. So romantic. 


I couldn’t sleep at all, and my alarms went off, so I got up and got dressed. I thought we’d go out for lunch, but F booked himself a massage for 12:45 or something. It was already 11am.  He asked where I wanted to go. A wave of nausea washed over me and I really didn’t feel well for a few minutes. Of course, F wanted to go out “right NOW” and I didn’t think I could eat. I told him that I felt sick and asked if I could have a few minutes. I couldn’t. I felt better a little later. He decided not to go out. 


I went downstairs and grabbed my breakfast. I ate and then a few minutes later F asked if I wanted to go out. He was going to go to a ramen shop. Of course, I didn’t want to go. I asked if he’d drop me off at the mall first. No. I told him to just go. The second day this weekend that he’s not bothered with my lunch. 


He left and I wished him good riddance. I didn’t see him for a long time.  I watched an episode of Bake Off while he was gone and I took a bit of a nap too. 


He came back in the afternoon and was quiet. I finally told him that I would like to go out to eat so he drove me. He dropped me off at Gusto and gave me a bit of money. I asked if I should text him after and we agreed to that. 


I went into Gusto and had a nice meal. I had a burger with grated daikon and mushrooms, drink bar and a small order of fries. I had a good time, read my book, had some nice drinks and relaxed. When I was finished I texted F to see where he was. He said he was in the parking lot, but when I went out, he wasn’t there. I did see his car across the street in a parking lot. I went over to the store and met up with him. He was pretty grumpy for a while but gradually got nicer to me.  We got a few things, and F got some of his fake beer.  


When we left that store, I suggested getting our groceries. F drove me to the grocery store and I went looking for stuff. I did fairly well shopping and got everything I wanted except sour cream. Sigh. I paid and then took the stuff to the car.  At the car, I asked if I should have got a bento for K and the answer was yes. I went back in and got her one.


We came back to the house and relaxed for a while. I put the groceries away and went upstairs.  F and I spent a bit of time in our room. Finally, we decided to go out for dinner.


In the car, F asked me where we should go and I suggested going to Coco Ichibanya for curry. He thought it was a good idea so we went. Surprisingly, we had the same thing, curry with a hand-made pork cutlet. It was very nice. We also had a drink. 


We came back to the house via the small local grocery store but they didn’t have sour cream either. How am I supposed to have perogies without sour cream?  I’ll maybe try the draining yogurt thing. Wish me luck!


Anyway, we aren’t angry at each other anymore, but it’s been a really difficult weekend. I’m actually happy that F is going back to work tomorrow. I think the shot affected him more than he’d like to admit and he also go some bad news on Saturday that I have been expecting for a long time. 


Come back later if you like and hear all about my Monday. Hopefully, it will be boring!


Until tomorrow…. 

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