Friday - Hot and sunny
F woke me up early this morning of course. Same as usual. I went back to sleep and slept a bit longer. F took his mother out to her doctor and I got up for a few minutes then went back to bed. I slept a little longer after that.
I got up earlier than usual, got dressed and waited for F to come back. It sounds like he didn’t even tell the doctor that his mother has a cold that she got from his sister and gave to me! F was talking about asthma. That isn’t contagious, at least not as far as I know!
We talked about going for lunch but F did his stupid, “don’t ask me what I want for lunch” thing. It is so frustrating. When he takes a day off I usually try to let him have a place he likes for lunch. I named off a couple of places immediately and he picked one. Unfortunately, they were busy and if we went in we’d have to sit on the floor. I’d worn some tight cotton pants that didn’t have any stretch, so I didn’t want to do that. We left and I thought we’d try the close-by place that we both like, but F decided to zoom off to the eel restaurant. We got there, they were open, but they didn’t have enough food left for lunch specials for two. F went back to one of the original two places I had suggested and we ended up able to eat there. They didn’t have their lunch specials today, but I had an order of small udon with tempura, F had udon with tempura on rice.
I suggested coffee afterwards, but F wasn’t feeling great. Instead he wanted to get some money, then he suggested driving to Costco. At 3 pm on a Friday? I noped that idea. Then we just went back to the house where I took a short 20 minute nap, and F slept the rest of the afternoon.
I woke him up before 6 and suggested getting bentos for us all. He agreed to do that. I had asked if we could go to the movie tonight since the next two nights they aren’t having a late night showing in English at the cinema. After much humming and hawing he said no as he was dizzy. I begged him to go to the doctor this afternoon, I really did. His poor condition has been an ongoing thing and he won’t go. Then I get punished because he isn’t capable of doing anything in the evening.
We went to pick up the bentos and came back to the house. We ate in the living room with K and that was as horrible as you might expect. I couldn’t be bothered talking to either of them, so I ate my bento and read things on my phone.
To be fair to him, F did rinse and throw out the bento boxes, but I got to do the washing of glasses and the drink jug that they’d emptied earlier in the day. So nice to leave it for me.
When I went upstairs, F was in bed and planning on staying there. I felt a bit rage-y all night. He took a day off and he basically just slept all day. What a waste. I didn’t go back to bed. I watched a lot of YouTube, played with my phone and then took a shower.
I came back upstairs and drank a sports drink and it seemed to have helped me feel a bit more balanced. I watched an episode of The Closer and found out that The Boys (season 4) has already dropped on Prime. I will get on that soon.
F has basically been sleeping all night. I imagine that it is good for him, but I just find it annoying. Last week we had such a nice time when he was off work and this week it has just been so hot and I’m so disappointed. I wanted to enjoy time with my husband, but I just can’t.
I’m not sure what we’ll get up to tomorrow. I have basically told myself that it’s okay to get out of here by bus or if he pulls the crap about not knowing where to eat, I’ll just make myself something here. I don’t know why we can’t discuss things like that like normal people. And then, when we do go out, he ignores me in favour of YouTube. He sometimes tells me his English is going downhill. It is. He isn’t using it and it’s making me so sad and angry and worried about it.
Anyway, it is late and I have to get some sleep. It’ll start heating up again in a couple of hours so I need sleep before then. Until tomorrow….
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